Pt 4: comparison is a
contrast between two or more humans or places or ideas. And it is somewhat UN-controllable
in the human circle, in the sense that we tend to irrationally use our personal
standards to measure life’s activities and people’s abilities in general. We unjustly
perceive and comment on acts and omissions in manners we best understand, not
necessarily how the general standards are measured by the majority. This
problem is substratum because parties to a union refuse to see or view the
others as they ought to be seen or viewed. Illegal act of constantly drawing a
line between humans really does affect input; understand one thing, that people
are different and have different mentality. The fact your ex wakes up at 6a.m
don’t mean I should if I do not have morning prayers, and need not be at work
till 10a.m, and it should not affect me when I am self-employed also. Just
because your former cooks and clean don’t mean you have to rub it on my face
that I am not competent to hold that office of girlfriend. Instead of spend all
the time comparing between peoples, its encouraging assisting that individual,
group or party to become that sure being/entity you admire and desire. It’s
simple; see him or her as they are, and input your own swag by teaching him/her
to be your most favorable being, no need for long thing.
Pt 5: trust is that faith, belief, hope, confidence we have in
other humans, or a system. It is for the writer, the concept that best prolongs
a union; trust can allow parties apart from each other remain strong. Simply
put, lack of trust must encourage ill thoughts in minds which will not go well with
the relationship. For instance a male will be thinking about where his partner
is, what she is doing, who she is with vice-versa. Do you agree that it gets to
a time in a relationship where love fails and its other matters that sustain
the union e.g. children, amebo people and TRUST…etc. trust
must not be denied a place in the minds of parties to a union, it ought to be a
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matter because of its importance.
Pt 6: positivism and understanding will have to be fused
together for two reasons, 1: and most importantly my eyes are hurting, and 2: both
concepts should be woven together as they quietly form the basis of a valid union.
A positivist will at all times advocate for his/her partner to have hope and
strength to face the future with excess morale and support them in this plight.
This person cannot attempt this without adequate understanding of life
and the partner involved. Understanding is the bedrock and key of a successful
relationship. All other points must come or fall after understanding and a
positive approach. If you understand your spouse to the largest extent then a
lot of things would not cause issues, rather there’ll be more lasting solutions
to their problems. Always ask for the Grace of understanding.
Thank you.
@pokeville
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